We need to talk about one of the biggest pitfalls in manifesting- impatience- and its deeper shadows.
When you heard about various manifestation methods and see others’ rapid success stories, it’s easy to fall into the trap of jumping into manifestation in order to get your wishes instantly. Moreso, when that doesn’t happen, many people grow doubtful, frustrated, or disheartened.
While it’s okay to have complex feelings in life and manifestation is no different, residing in them can block you from your desires. Let’s get to the bottom of this with the 4 most common factors and how to fix them.
1: You are reliant on the 3D for validation.
You cannot let the 3D- or realm of the senses- be your abject truth. Our senses are actually fairly manipulable based on what we are conditioned to expect, and the physical world is the crystallization, the precipitate, of the immaterial realm. This means that if you anchor yourself to the physical ‘reality’ as your validation, you will always be in a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure when you perceive that your desire ‘isn’t there’ in the 3D.
2: You lack faith
This one is simple. Faith is the belief in things unseen. Many things are unseen before they are seen— in fact this whole world is full of things that were ideas before they were ‘made flesh’. When you lack faith, you end up in a state of lack instead of gratitude which further delays blessings. You think that because you don’t see it, you aren’t getting it and, most importantly, you begin to feel negatively towards Spirit or Gxd for not blessing you.
“Why don’t I deserve it?” “Why am I being ignored?” When in fact neither is true. The solution here is to focus on gratitude because there is ALWAYS something to be grateful for.
3: You are still in a trauma state of urgency
You want your manifestation NOW because you need to feel better NOW and you can’t tolerate a wait because you’re dysregulated. You want your manifestation to be ‘real’ to soothe whatever it is that is currently suffering, but here’s the gag: You cannot rely on any external object— a job, a cash windfall, the perfect partner— to rescue you from this.
If you manifest from this energy you will actually just manifest the fear of lack, abandonment or insecurity that is motivating you! Instead, work on regulating your nervous system and improving your self concept.
4: You believe time is actually linear!
It is not! Human beings perceive time in a linear collection of memories, but in reality the Universe is quantum and all instances are occurring simultaneously in infinite realities. This is why master manifestors often say ‘it is already done’. While it is totally possible for manifestations to show up rapidly, adding up the days/weeks that go by without you seeing it in the 3D will only…you guessed it- manifest more lack. If this is you, you might need to remember…
Live in the end.
The phrase ‘Living in the end’ or LitE literally just means to reside faithfully in the spiritual reality where your desire is yours. It means to exist in gratitude to creator for what you’ve already been given- past, present and future. It is to side with your belief in the divine over any material distraction in the 3D world, and most of all to be able to surrender to the process of your desire unfolding- because we cannot control that and Gxd knows best!
